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Finance... Who Gets the Home (and Other Issues)

Q: I'm just beginning to think about divorce.  What usually happens with the marital home?

A: If there are children, the parties will often try to let the children stay in the home, typically with their mother, while they are growing up.

If there is enough other property, the party who moves out (typically the husband) takes other property, such as stocks, or a share of his pension, to balance his share of the home which he is giving up.

Sometimes the spouse who moves out also keeps an ownership interest in the home. This means that when the home is ultimately sold, that spouse will get a share of the proceeds.

If there are no children, or the parties can not afford to pay the mortgage on the home after the divorce, the parties typically sell the home. Then they divide the proceeds that are left after the expenses of the sale.

Q: Who will get to keep the home?  That is, who owns the home now?

A: Although these seem like the same question, they really are two different questions. 

First, we would urge you not to get too hung up on who "owns" the home.  Under the law of most states, the couple may negotiate what to do with the home "as if" both are owners of the home.

If the couple can't agree, a judge will decide, applying the law of that state as to who "owns" the home.  

Q: If it comes to a judge deciding, what does my state's law say about who "owns" the home?

A: Let's take the typical situation, where the home is purchased during the marriage and mortgage payments are made out of the incomes of one or both spouses. 

In most states, in that case, the home is considered to be owned 50/50 by the two of you.  This is the case even if only one spouse worked and earned money.

Q: What if the home was bought before the marriage or with money provided by my parents?

A: If the home was bought before the marriage, or with funds provided in part by one spouse's parents, the law is less clear.

Also, in theses cases, the law varies more from state to state. 

Some states will carefully trace the funds used to pay for the home, and award a percentage ownership based on how much was contributed before the marriage, or by a spouse's parents.

In other states the date the home was purchased, or the source of the funds matters less.

Q: What other issues should I be thinking about?

A: Here are some important things to think about:

  • Where you live. Someone will be moving. Which spouse? Will the children move? Keeping the children in the home can be very important to their emotional well-being. What will happen to the home?
  • Selling the home. A key issue is often whether to keep the home or sell it. You can sell the house on the open market. Or, you can keep the house and have one party "buy out" the other's share. (This is not a "sale" for tax purposes.)
  • Buy or rent. If you are selling or moving out, a key question is whether you should buy a new home or just rent. The program can help you compare the costs of both options.
  • Tax gain. Many people can now sell their homes completely tax-free. But it is important to verify that you are like "many people" in this regard.

Q: What kind of planning can I be doing?

A: Here are some important planning tips:

  • Plan for the emotional impact. As you think about who will stay in the home, be aware that there are often unexpected emotional impacts. For example, the spouse who leaves may not bear to see the spouse who stays living there with a new relationship. If the children leave, that may uproot them from their community, which may have significant emotional impact even beyond the divorce itself.
  • Consider keeping joint ownership of the house. There might be a tax benefit to retaining joint ownership of the home. If you retain joint ownership of the home, you might be able to shelter a combined $500,000 of gain from taxes, when you eventually sell it. If only one of you owns the home on the sale date, then the most gain that can be sheltered from tax is $250,000.
  • Appraise the home. The value of the home is very important. In order to minimize conflict over this important issue, you might want to consider hiring an independent appraiser. An appraisal you obtained for a mortgage or a refinancing, even a recent one, may be too low. Banks typically appraise very conservatively; real estate brokers tend to appraise very optimistically.
  • Consider selling to your spouse. You might consider "buying" the home from (or "selling" the home to) your spouse, with payments to last over several years. That gives the selling/leaving spouse some cash flow from the house, and it lets the buying/staying spouse pay for the house over time.
  • Consider renting to your spouse. One spouse can pay rent to the other, to give the leaving spouse (the so-called "out-spouse") some cash flow without selling the house.
  • Get a written separation agreement. If you are the spouse who moves out, but you still have some ownership in the home, you might consider getting a signed separation agreement that specifies that the other spouse will live in the home. Otherwise, the spouse who moves out might end up being taxed on his share of the gain when the home is eventually sold, if that spouse is not in the home for 2 of the 5 years before the sale.

Q: Can the Family Law Software Planner help with the Home?

A: Yes.  the Family Law Software Financial Planner has a major chapter on the home.  It considers all the alternative ways of dividing the home.  You can ask "what if" about each of them.

In exploring the program's many suggestions, you might find a way of dealing with the home that you had not considered.  This would let both you and your spouse get what you need, and thus save time, money, and aggravation fighting over this issue.

If you are considering selling the marital home, the program will help you figure out how much cash you would walk away with after expenses and taxes if you sold the home.   This can be an important input in making this difficult and important decision.

The program also walks you through the tax issues, including whether you can exclude the gain on the sale.  Because the tax gain on the sale of the home can be quite significant, the tax advice here could save you thousands of dollars in taxes.

The program also asks you to imagine where you and your spouse will live after the divorce.  If you are going to buy a new home, the program asks for the purchase price and estimates the mortgage you will have to pay.  It then shows the effect of that new mortgage (including the deduction of the interest portion) on your bottom line. 

Thus, the program can help with your "rent or buy" decision after the divorce with a thorough analysis of the before and after tax consequences of each alternative.

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