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Signs Of A Shattered Ego Extreme behavior, such as stalking, wiretapping, and kidnapping are most often signs of a shattered ego. Psychologists say that what has happened is this: The spouse who is doing these things (most often, but not always, the husband) feels in some part of himself, that he was utterly worthless. This thought is so painful that he can't permit himself to think it. So he doesn't. Instead, he looks for someone else to blame for the mess. Needless to say, his gaze alights upon his wife. He "concludes" that she is a devil and needs to be punished. Or, he decides that the kids need to be protected from her. He also develops the conviction that the legal system is biased in her favor. This leads to the extreme, illegal behavior. The way to address this best is to convince the husband to sit for counseling, where his feelings can be addressed.
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